You do not grant privileges to a tweak, you grant them to the process the tweak is loaded into (SpringBoard in your case). But I wouldn't recommend doing that. I remember trying and SpringBoard wasn't working properly.
If you need root privileges you should create a daemon. As I understand, you're hooking SpringBoard methods. So it will be a tweak and a daemon. When you need to do something as root your tweak will send notification to the daemon. You can even get a proper response. For example, CFMessagePort
API allows you to do IPC with your daemon pretty easely and even get a response synchronously to simplify the code. It will like you just calling a function.
That's all for a general case. In your case you just need to place your .plist file in a different directory where SpringBoard has write permissions. Good place would some directory in /var/mobile/
. Find the one that works and place .plist there.