Ok, after a couple of hours more fumbling around in the dark I found a recipe that does everything I wanted...
First we define a "showable" type, representing a module type that has had [@@deriving show] (from https://github.com/ocaml-ppx/ppx_deriving#plugin-show) applied to it:
module type Showable = sig
type t
val pp : Format.formatter -> t -> unit
val show : t -> string
end
(I don't know if there's some way to get this directly from ppx_deriving.show without defining it manually?)
Then we re-define and extend the Set and Set.OrderedType (i.e. element) types to require that the elements are "showable":
module type OrderedShowable = sig
include Set.OrderedType
include Showable with type t := t
end
module ShowableSet = struct
include Set
module type S = sig
include Set.S
end
module Make (Ord : OrderedShowable) = struct
include Set.Make(Ord)
end
end
I think with the original code in my question I had got confused and used some kind of higher-order functor syntax (?) ...I don't know how it seemed to work at all, but at some point I realised my MySet_Make was returning a functor rather than a module. So we'll fix that now and just use a normal functor.
The other thing we can fix is to make MySet a further extension of ShowableSet ... so MySet_Make will take the element type as a parameter instead of another Set type. This makes the eventual code all simpler too:
module type MySet = sig
include ShowableSet.S
val my_method : t -> elt -> elt list option
val show_el : elt -> string
end
module AdjacencySet_Make (El : OrderedShowable) : AdjacencySet
with type elt = El.t
= struct
include ShowableSet.Make(El)
let my_method set el = Some [el] (* whatever *)
let show_el el = El.show el (* we can use the "showable" elements! *)
end
Then we just need an OrderedShowable version of Int as the element type. Int is already ordered so we just have to extend it by deriving "show" and then we can make a concrete MySet:
module Int' = struct
include Int
type t = int [@@deriving show]
end
module MyIntSet = MySet_Make(Int')
And we can use it like:
# let myset = MyIntSet.of_list [3; 2; 8];;
# print_endline (MyIntSet.show_el 3);;
"3"