There isn't. In fact, where ListChangeListener.Change has a wasUpdated() method, which returns true when the change is created because one of the properties specified in the extractor has changed, SetChangeListener.Change has no such method.
If your set contains elements of type S, which has a property of type Property<T>, call it someProperty(), in which you are interested, you can do
ChangeListener<T> listener = (obs, oldValue, newValue) -> { /* some code */ };
ObservableSet<S> set = FXCollections.observableSet();
set.addListener((Change<? extends S> c) -> {
if (c.wasAdded()) {
c.getElementAdded().someProperty().addListener(listener);
}
if (c.wasRemoved()) {
c.getElementRemoved().someProperty().removeListener(listener);
}
});