暂时忽略 T-SQL 请求,因为这不太可能是编写此代码的最佳语言......
One of my favorites approaches to tough 'layout' problems like this is Simulated Annealing. It's a good approach because you don't need to think HOW to solve the actual problem: all you define is a measure of how good the current layout is (a score if you will) and then you allow random changes that either increase or decrease that score. Over many iterations you gradually reduce the probability of moving to a worse score. This 'simulated annealing' approach reduces the probability of getting stuck in a local minimum.
So in your case the scoring function for a given layout might be based on the distance to the next advert in the same category and the distance to another advert of the same series. If you later have time of day considerations you can easily add them to the score function.
Initially you allocate the adverts sequentially, evenly or randomly within their time window (doesn't really matter which). Now you pick two slots and consider what happens to the score when you switch the contents of those two slots. If either advert moves out of its allowed range you can reject the change immediately. If both are still in range, does it move you to a better overall score? Initially you take changes randomly even if they make it worse but over time you reduce the probability of that happening so that by the end you are moving monotonically towards a better score.
Easy to implement, easy to add new 'rules' that affect score, can easily adjust run-time to accept a 'good enough' answer, ...
Another approach would be to use a genetic algorithm, see this similar question: Best Fit Scheduling Algorithm this is likely harder to program but will probably converge more quickly on a good answer.