At the CPU level, yes every processor will eventually see the change to the memory address. Even without locks or memory barriers. Locks and barriers would just ensure that it all happened in a relative ordering (w.r.t other instructions) such that it appeared correct to your program.
The problem isn't cache-coherency (I hope Joe Duffy's book doesn't make that mistake). The caches stay conherent - it is just that this takes time, and the processors don't bother to wait for that to happen - unless you enforce it. So instead, the processor moves on to the next instruction, which may or may not end up happening before the previous one (because each memory read/write make take a different amount of time. Ironically because of the time for the processors to agree on coherency, etc. - this causes some cachelines to be conherent faster than others (ie depending on whether the line was Modified, Exclusive, Shared, or Invalid it takes more or less work to get into the necessary state).)
So a read may appear old or from an out of date cache, but really it just happened earlier than expected (typically because of look-ahead and branch prediction). When it really was read, the cache was coherent, it has just changed since then. So the value wasn't old when you read it, but it is now when you need it. You just read it too soon. :-(
Or equivalently, it was written later than the logic of your code thought it would be written.
Or both.
Anyhow, if this was C/C++, even without locks/barriers, you would eventually get the updated values. (within a few hundred cycles typically, as memory takes about that long). In C/C++ you could use volatile (the weak non-thread volatile) to ensure that the value wasn't read from a register. (Now there's a non-coherent cache! ie the registers)
In C# I don't know enough about CLR to know how long a value could stay in a register, nor how to ensure you get a real re-read from memory. You've lost the 'weak' volatile.
I would suspect as long as the variable access doesn't completely get compiled away, you will eventually run out of registers (x86 doesn't have many to start with) and get your re-read.
But no guarantees that I see. If you could limit your volatile-read to a particular point in your code that was often, but not too often (ie start of next task in a while(things_to_do) loop) then that might be the best you can do.