I was wrong in my previous answer since i not fully understood your requirements. if your added item is an Object you may add it without any problem as long as you Have a list of something. You don't have to recreate the list

void add(Object toAdd) {
    Object obj = getObject();
    if (obj instanceof List<?>) {
        ((List<Object>)obj).add(toAdd);
        return;
    }
    throw new SomeException();
}

UPDATE

as answer to few comments, there is no problem to add any object to a list, and there is no problem to find out what type of object it is during iteration after it:

List<String> x1 = new ArrayList<String>();
Object c3 = x1;
x1.add("asdsad");
Integer y2 = new Integer(5);
if (c3 instanceof List<?>){
     ((List<Object>)c3).add((Object)y2);
}

for (Object i : (List<Object>)c3){
    if (i instanceof String){
        System.out.println("String: " + (String)i);
    }
    if (i instanceof Integer){
        System.out.println("Integer: "+ (Integer)i);
    }
}